We headed out for Kirkland Lake yesterday morning at 0530 am and travelled up to attend the visitation, the service and then over to visit at the luncheon - all for the funeral of Deanna's Mother. It was a strange day - lots of people we did not know - which is not uncommon at funerals, but the service was strange. One niece of the deceased gave the readings ( followed a Catholic format) but lost her way in the papers she had and then took about 5 minutes at the lectern going through the book to look for the reading she was to give. The priest sat in a chair at edge and tried to prompt her but she seemed determined to find the right page and kept flipping back and forth. There were no flowers except those from Harry and I, his sister Donna and family and two from Deanna and Ted, and from her brother and wife. The funeral home filled in with artificial arrangements that in my opinion detracted. I know flowers are not necessary and although no mention was made NOT to give flowers, it is still generally something immediate family does. And the daughter of Deannas brother (granddaughter of deceased) used a tablet to record every part of the service standing at front facing the audience even when the priest was giving the prayer and blessing. We got back home about 5 pm only stopping at the Cheese Factory ( a treat for us when we go up North) and for gas in North Bay.
Last night the temp dipped to minus 30 again with no relief in next day or so until Friday when it is to be 1 degree. There is no longer any rhyme or reason to the weather patterns. I just know I am sick of it all and wish for a quick return to Summer (hopefully without the mess of the thaw and worry about water!) Thinking about Pati and Dave as I write this note - you shall have a great "getaway" and feel revived when you return to face the pending Spring - will look forward to your first report. In meantime Cathy....how are things there? Take care
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