Finally it's over. ( see other blog) Yesterday I taught my class. We were out at the University. It's been a lot of years since I was on campus--nearly 30, but nothing changes. We were able to find the place with no problem. It's also just the same--a wasteland on the weekends. Someone had tied an ironing board to a street post in front of the building, and everyone joked about seeing that and knowing they had found the place. I ended up with 12 students, and they had to go out and have more handouts printed for me. I was expecting 9 and had brought an extra one just in case, but ---. the students were eager and excited. There were very few problems and the class went well. Everything came home safely, thanks to my new special carrier for the machine, but it all has to now be put away again.
Unfortunately, the food was excellent. We had cinnamon buns and banana bread and some other similar bread for morning coffee. Four different salads and a four big platters of variety of sandwiches, as well as the left overs from coffee and blueberry pie for lunch, then leftover pie and wonderful cookies, as well as leftover pie, with afternoon coffee. We were well fed.
Later, David and I went out for supper. We had planned this, expecting that we would both be hungry. The menu wasn't too exciting, and we both ended up ordering Steak and Mushroom pie. Thank Goodness this was made with puff pastry. I don't think I could have eaten standard savory pastry. It also came with a very small, undressed, salad. An excellent supper, and I might have it again--in a weak moment.
Few plans for this week, which is a "Good Thing". I will be going out to Selkirk on Thursday, to start to pull together the reports etc for the AGM, which is May 29th. Some sort of package needs to be sent out a minimum of 7 days in advance. We also have an appointment to discuss our house insurance Wednesday morning, but I believe David has a file ready to go, on that. At some point this week, the fellow is coming to do the Spring yard clean-up, but we don't know what day. I sure hope he doesn't show up Wednesday morning.
This morning I received a letter telling me that it's time for a mammogram. Usually they're scheduling well in advance, but I managed to get one next Tuesday. This will be my last, as I've aged out of the system.
So, off to the bank, and then to the basement, to start sorting out my life.
Monday, April 29, 2019
Sunday, April 28, 2019
Wow Cathy!!
Hey, Cathy.....Harry pulled me over to see a picture of you on Facebook and I was taken aback with your most gorgeous top you were wearing - sort of quilt blocks if that describes it but does not do it justice really ....please describe it for us. You looked absolutely wonderful!
I am working in the yard this morning as the sun is shining, even though it is still only just above zero. I have raked the miniature roses I planted last year and they are all nice and green. Goodie - they live!
Anyway must get back to work. I am enjoying some my time out there but I am sure that will not last too long. This morning I had my very first early 'walkabout " with a coffee in hand and sitting by the fireplace on my bench. And it felt glorious. What have you two done to make your day special???? Take care
I am working in the yard this morning as the sun is shining, even though it is still only just above zero. I have raked the miniature roses I planted last year and they are all nice and green. Goodie - they live!
Anyway must get back to work. I am enjoying some my time out there but I am sure that will not last too long. This morning I had my very first early 'walkabout " with a coffee in hand and sitting by the fireplace on my bench. And it felt glorious. What have you two done to make your day special???? Take care
Saturday, April 27, 2019
Ah...shucks!
Well Pati, in this case the anticipation was greater than the actual event. I was so looking forward to your feedback, and hoping for a glowing description with expectations of a return for more. Not to be! But as you say, you came home with a few ideas.
This morning there is snow and blowing. Cannot seem to cut a break with weather at all. The greenhouses are heated but the outside shelves may take a beating. I covered with sheets and then tarps to keep the forecast snow at bay, but with below zero temps and blowing snow, what are we to do? At least for the most part the winter snow has melted and we see ground and green coming up - Harry's garlic is about two to three inches up so maybe he'll have a good crop of that this year.
We have done not much of anything as well - going shopping and cleaning the birds and walking to the Lottery store are my highlights. haha! The tickets I buy are not even winners.
I did watch a few Quilt Shows on the computer and they always fill me with "what if's" but I know I'll never get at it. I wanted so badly to unearth my sewing machine and at least sew a few seams but even that desire waned quickly with the need to water the plants and then cover up.
I went up to the Library Wednesday evening to return my books and seek out others. The Librarian told me that the lending Library options are suspended now - the wonderful Government of ours has slashed the budget by 50 % - there have been layoffs ( in the south they have a courier deliver the books and so they are layed off) The books up here are mailed out and the local Library pays for that service. At the end of June they are reassessing the situation with other options on the table but for now it looks as if I am stuck with what the local Library has. Anyway, I took out a Kate Morton book - Cathy you recommended this author- so I am reading that now. This Library has lots and lots of John Sandford books but none of the The Kidd series. Have either of you read any of his other books?
So I carry on, carrying on. And always look forward to your messages. Take care fo now.
This morning there is snow and blowing. Cannot seem to cut a break with weather at all. The greenhouses are heated but the outside shelves may take a beating. I covered with sheets and then tarps to keep the forecast snow at bay, but with below zero temps and blowing snow, what are we to do? At least for the most part the winter snow has melted and we see ground and green coming up - Harry's garlic is about two to three inches up so maybe he'll have a good crop of that this year.
We have done not much of anything as well - going shopping and cleaning the birds and walking to the Lottery store are my highlights. haha! The tickets I buy are not even winners.
I did watch a few Quilt Shows on the computer and they always fill me with "what if's" but I know I'll never get at it. I wanted so badly to unearth my sewing machine and at least sew a few seams but even that desire waned quickly with the need to water the plants and then cover up.
I went up to the Library Wednesday evening to return my books and seek out others. The Librarian told me that the lending Library options are suspended now - the wonderful Government of ours has slashed the budget by 50 % - there have been layoffs ( in the south they have a courier deliver the books and so they are layed off) The books up here are mailed out and the local Library pays for that service. At the end of June they are reassessing the situation with other options on the table but for now it looks as if I am stuck with what the local Library has. Anyway, I took out a Kate Morton book - Cathy you recommended this author- so I am reading that now. This Library has lots and lots of John Sandford books but none of the The Kidd series. Have either of you read any of his other books?
So I carry on, carrying on. And always look forward to your messages. Take care fo now.
Friday, April 26, 2019
Brunch
Today was my brunch meeting at the Oakwood Cafe. Can't say I was impressed with the cafe. It was small and crowded. We had asked for the meeting room, and then found out that they didn't open it until noon, and, of course our reservation was for 10:00 to 12:00. they started to give us the "bum's rush: about 11:30, saying that they had another reservation at 12:00 and we would have to go. there was nothing acceptable on my diet there, so I settled for a Denver sandwich, which I've found in about the lest offensive thing, diet wise. I'm not sure if it was a little uncooked in the middle of if there was melted cheese in there. But the potatoes they served with the sandwich were great, although I later found out they were deep fried. Then it was home and off grocery shopping. Friday afternoon of both pay day and month end isn't a good time to shop at the larger stores.
I did come home after the meeting with ideas buzzing around in my head. I've tried writing some of them down, and will force myself to put a few in the sketch book tomorrow.
Now it's time to slow down after three poker tournaments, maybe read a bit, and then head to bed.
I did come home after the meeting with ideas buzzing around in my head. I've tried writing some of them down, and will force myself to put a few in the sketch book tomorrow.
Now it's time to slow down after three poker tournaments, maybe read a bit, and then head to bed.
Wednesday, April 24, 2019
Today was the day
for my excursion into Riveriew. Not much change since our trip when you were here, Beth. The sale was at the house on the North East corner of Mabel and Maplewood, as I had expected. I believe that house has pre-dated our old house by several years. The sale was in the basement, and did the basement ever look old and decrepit. It was only partially finished, and not very well. I felt "grubby" just being there. The sale had some interesting ceramic work, but far more than my purse could manage. ( And a kiln in the middle of the floor) The display of goodies and wine was as big as the sale area, and the event appeared to be more of a friendly neighbourhood gathering than anything else. Then Gail wanted to explore the dike, so we took a trip around the back of the hospitals. She then told me that she had lived at the west end of Jubilee while going to the U. of Wpg, and could remember taking the Morley bus to school.
Then we went to Starbucks for a bit of supper. I found a dish there that had slightly fewer calories than the eggs I usually have, and provided a better meal. But the coffee cake I didn't have is still calling me. David had Coconut Shrimp, at home.
Since I don't want to wear myself out, or do too much prior to my teaching gig on Sunday, a lot of the day was spent playing in the studio, with my little traditional quilt. The instructions require putting together one block at a time, and every block is different, it will be time consuming, but I'm prepared. I just hope I don't run out of energy before it's finished. For the same reason, I'm pacing myself, by only doing one block at a time, or taking as many days as necessary to finish one block.
Then we went to Starbucks for a bit of supper. I found a dish there that had slightly fewer calories than the eggs I usually have, and provided a better meal. But the coffee cake I didn't have is still calling me. David had Coconut Shrimp, at home.
Since I don't want to wear myself out, or do too much prior to my teaching gig on Sunday, a lot of the day was spent playing in the studio, with my little traditional quilt. The instructions require putting together one block at a time, and every block is different, it will be time consuming, but I'm prepared. I just hope I don't run out of energy before it's finished. For the same reason, I'm pacing myself, by only doing one block at a time, or taking as many days as necessary to finish one block.
Rather chilly right now....
I just came back in from covering plants and turning on the heaters in the greenhouses. I had been out earlier to take the covers off etc but as it did not warm up any over last few hours, I reversed my process to try to protect what I can. The rest of the day will be spent in the house even if I tried to do a bit of work outside earlier. I guess I am trying to rush things too much, or rather anxious to get out and busy myself. I, too, am struggling with weight which has become evident in tight slacks and in thinking about my diet it has been haphazard and frivolous - too much sweets and other such foods that do not do much for the regimen I had been following with great success. Having said that, I baked off another roll of refridgerator cookies this morning - I mentioned I had found a roll in the freezer - but not just one roll - I found four so what is a girl going to do!!
Yesterday I splurged and bought new underwear for myself - badly needed. I need to purge the old tattered ones that I have been trying to preserve as long as I could. Mom always said to wear good clean underwear whenever we went out - for the most part I have tried to follow this but once they start to fall apart your choice is then quite limited haha!
My lilies are still fresh and fragrant - Harry cannot stand them but I love them and will cherish them for as long as they will last.
Now Pati I believe your Breakfast meeting is to be held on Friday. have a great time - I shall be thinking of you!
Lots of flooding in our parts right now - in Huntsville the streets are covered - we witnessed some of it yesterday. In Bracebridge further down the highway ( where my friend Sue lives) they have declared a state of emergency. Highway 17 from North Bay south towards Ottawa had to be closed and caused detours for many lasting over 14 hours to come down Highway 11 and backtrack through Algonquin park. Perhaps not as bad as we are hearing from Quebec or the Maritimes, but bad enough. I had been following the red river news in the free Press but that fortunately did not cause any real issues this year for you folks and others around there.
Well, off to do the dishes and then get busy with this and that. I have a Library book due in a few days that is not quite finished so i would love to just sit and read - maybe I should make a cup of tea and do just that??? Take care
Yesterday I splurged and bought new underwear for myself - badly needed. I need to purge the old tattered ones that I have been trying to preserve as long as I could. Mom always said to wear good clean underwear whenever we went out - for the most part I have tried to follow this but once they start to fall apart your choice is then quite limited haha!
My lilies are still fresh and fragrant - Harry cannot stand them but I love them and will cherish them for as long as they will last.
Now Pati I believe your Breakfast meeting is to be held on Friday. have a great time - I shall be thinking of you!
Lots of flooding in our parts right now - in Huntsville the streets are covered - we witnessed some of it yesterday. In Bracebridge further down the highway ( where my friend Sue lives) they have declared a state of emergency. Highway 17 from North Bay south towards Ottawa had to be closed and caused detours for many lasting over 14 hours to come down Highway 11 and backtrack through Algonquin park. Perhaps not as bad as we are hearing from Quebec or the Maritimes, but bad enough. I had been following the red river news in the free Press but that fortunately did not cause any real issues this year for you folks and others around there.
Well, off to do the dishes and then get busy with this and that. I have a Library book due in a few days that is not quite finished so i would love to just sit and read - maybe I should make a cup of tea and do just that??? Take care
Monday, April 22, 2019
Yesterday( sung wistful and soft)
Yes it was a beautiful day. the weather was warm enough-for the first time-to sit in the garden and read--and we did--for almost an hour. Warm enough to do it again today, but the wind precluded any sitting and reading.
We really haven't left the house today. I was busy on my computer until mid-afternoon. Then I made a short "to do" list, and accomplished most of it. I'm back to phase one of my diet. I'm in real trouble clothing-wise, so hope it makes a difference.
In the studio, I'm trying to get the machine work done on the little tree ornaments, so that I can take them to various hand stitching get-togethers over the summer. I"m quite pleased with them, and hope they sell well, but then one really can't predict that sort of thing.
I posted a negative review of the purchase I made on Amazon, where I was so disappointed at what i received for over $60. Today I got a phone call from the supplier asking if I wanted to return it (at my expense) for a full refund, in exchange for removing the review. We argued a bit, with me saying "no". When I finally said "no" for the third time and then"goodbye", as I was hanging up, I heard her offering a $30 gift certificate. She was insisting that the original description was for a "booklet" and not a book, but I remember what I read, although I now wonder if the description has since been changed.
No matter. This was a lesson learned, and I'll be much more cautious about buying anything on the Internet, in future.
We really haven't left the house today. I was busy on my computer until mid-afternoon. Then I made a short "to do" list, and accomplished most of it. I'm back to phase one of my diet. I'm in real trouble clothing-wise, so hope it makes a difference.
In the studio, I'm trying to get the machine work done on the little tree ornaments, so that I can take them to various hand stitching get-togethers over the summer. I"m quite pleased with them, and hope they sell well, but then one really can't predict that sort of thing.
I posted a negative review of the purchase I made on Amazon, where I was so disappointed at what i received for over $60. Today I got a phone call from the supplier asking if I wanted to return it (at my expense) for a full refund, in exchange for removing the review. We argued a bit, with me saying "no". When I finally said "no" for the third time and then"goodbye", as I was hanging up, I heard her offering a $30 gift certificate. She was insisting that the original description was for a "booklet" and not a book, but I remember what I read, although I now wonder if the description has since been changed.
No matter. This was a lesson learned, and I'll be much more cautious about buying anything on the Internet, in future.
Why, yes, indeed!!
A lovely visit indeed for our Easter Sunday get together at Mike's. The day was truly glorious with sun and warmth. I could not believe how much snow had disappeared at Mike's since I had only been there the week before. When I was there I was trying to shovel snow around his summer car - at that time, it was totally covered with snow on top of tarps, and surrounded by large snow banks. When we drove up Sunday to his place there was his car parked in the driveway, and not a bit of snow around at all. As he tells us he brought it out of the winter storage arrangement he made in his yard, and had washed it and checked all the tires and oil and gas etc and had actually driven it to North Bay on Saturday to do a shopping and meet up with some acquaintances. He also relates being trailed by the OPP into North Bay and then again once back on the highway home. This car - a Challenger - is a magnet for Police observation, but he is not stopped - he does not draw attention to himself except by the appearance of the car alone.
My house is filled with the very pleasant but very strong smell of a bouquet of lilies that Mike gave me. I love them but he found them too strong for his little place and was sorry he had chosen them - I was not, as I truly like them and their smell haha!
Very busy today with plants and greenhouse and yard... but accomplished much. Now I have to go out before too long and shut the greenhouses but more important to cover up all the four shelves lined along the sidewalk covered with little tomatoes. They were taken out of the greenhouses to make more room but.... now starts the work of covering and uncovering every day. I also have a table covered with hanging baskets of the tumbler tomatoes inside on a card table. They will also have to taken out and brought in everyday. C'est la vie ????
Tomorrow to Huntsville, but first to drop off some more paperwork at the Accountant for Mike's taxes. They had asked about the tuition for his semester Sept to Dec 2018 and while at Mike's he and I went on the computer and searched out the documentation required. I am hoping it may make a positive difference for his taxes.
It is really a joy to finally see the snow disappearing - I can hardly wait to get into the yard and start to cleanup a bit - I have a goal for this year to make a positive difference in the appearance of the yard, and hope it will come to pass. Note how I am focusing on making positive differences in many aspects of my life haha!
So take care for now - let me know how things are going for you both!
My house is filled with the very pleasant but very strong smell of a bouquet of lilies that Mike gave me. I love them but he found them too strong for his little place and was sorry he had chosen them - I was not, as I truly like them and their smell haha!
Very busy today with plants and greenhouse and yard... but accomplished much. Now I have to go out before too long and shut the greenhouses but more important to cover up all the four shelves lined along the sidewalk covered with little tomatoes. They were taken out of the greenhouses to make more room but.... now starts the work of covering and uncovering every day. I also have a table covered with hanging baskets of the tumbler tomatoes inside on a card table. They will also have to taken out and brought in everyday. C'est la vie ????
Tomorrow to Huntsville, but first to drop off some more paperwork at the Accountant for Mike's taxes. They had asked about the tuition for his semester Sept to Dec 2018 and while at Mike's he and I went on the computer and searched out the documentation required. I am hoping it may make a positive difference for his taxes.
It is really a joy to finally see the snow disappearing - I can hardly wait to get into the yard and start to cleanup a bit - I have a goal for this year to make a positive difference in the appearance of the yard, and hope it will come to pass. Note how I am focusing on making positive differences in many aspects of my life haha!
So take care for now - let me know how things are going for you both!
Sunday, April 21, 2019
Happy Easter
I hope you both have a pleasant weekend. We have no plans, but I have been busy in the studio, with hand stitching jobs that I can do sitting. I have developed a plan and associated List, and am tending to it. This means less housework, and I will have to get on that today. Especially as I accidentally hit the on button on the blender without the lid on, while making breakfast. Never done that before.
My back is getting better as the new drugs kick in. I'm also finding myself more "fuzzy " brained, especially in the morning. Unfortunately, for some reason, I'm gaining weight rather quickly. That concerns me, but I'm back to phase one of my diet today, so we'll see if that helps.
The weather has tuned nice, but I've lived here long enough to know to take what we get, day by day. David has tried to do some yard work, but is fining it rough going. We have the name of a fellow who is willing to do it, for a price, and plan to phone him tomorrow. David is also concerned that the birds appear to be avoiding our feeder. they weren't eating the millet in the feed, so we changed to a feed with less millet. Maybe that's the problem.
otherwise not much going on here. Hope you both have a good day. I know Beth will. She does every time she visits Michael.
My back is getting better as the new drugs kick in. I'm also finding myself more "fuzzy " brained, especially in the morning. Unfortunately, for some reason, I'm gaining weight rather quickly. That concerns me, but I'm back to phase one of my diet today, so we'll see if that helps.
The weather has tuned nice, but I've lived here long enough to know to take what we get, day by day. David has tried to do some yard work, but is fining it rough going. We have the name of a fellow who is willing to do it, for a price, and plan to phone him tomorrow. David is also concerned that the birds appear to be avoiding our feeder. they weren't eating the millet in the feed, so we changed to a feed with less millet. Maybe that's the problem.
otherwise not much going on here. Hope you both have a good day. I know Beth will. She does every time she visits Michael.
Saturday, April 20, 2019
Happy Easter
Early greetings to you all for a Happy Easter tomorrow. We shall we leaving early for Mike's in the morning and I will not have a chance to blog. Hoping for a nice day with great expectations of a wonderful visit.
I was speaking with Willie yesterday and he was downtown in North Bay around supper time and chanced upon the human "Stations of the Cross" being enacted down the street towards Pro Cathedral. He was quite excited to tell me all about it first hand on the spot so in a way I was perhaps part of it all as well? It has been awhile since I was able to partake in any faith celebrations.
Anyway, have a wonderful; day XX
I was speaking with Willie yesterday and he was downtown in North Bay around supper time and chanced upon the human "Stations of the Cross" being enacted down the street towards Pro Cathedral. He was quite excited to tell me all about it first hand on the spot so in a way I was perhaps part of it all as well? It has been awhile since I was able to partake in any faith celebrations.
Anyway, have a wonderful; day XX
Friday, April 19, 2019
Lots of news
Happy to log on and see all sorts of news from you both. However, not too happy to hear that you are stricken again Pati with your back ailments. Take it easy! And Cathy you are really going to town with that book purging! Maybe you too, should take it easy haha!
I baked this morning and to show for it are corn meal muffins, and bran muffins to take to Mike's, and some refridgerator cookies for me! I found two frozen rolls in the freezer downstairs - surprise! Now I can treat myself.
Nothing but rain here but not half as bad as Ii thought it might be so it is manageable so far. We worked in the greenhouses yesterday afternoon ( yes, in the rain) and organized a little to make room for more. So now the parsley and the geraniums are all outside to stay. It is so nice to see the geraniums all in red flower but I hope that they will be ok - I think it is too early but Harry needed the room. I turned the outside water on yesterday as well - always a day to write down the date as I hate turning it on too early - this is the earliest so far. We were using the plastic pop bottles filling in the house and carrying out but they are all gone now and replaced by the hose.
Today I clean the bird cages and being a holiday and lower hydro rates, I think I will get started with the wash as well. Why is it always work?
Pati your Christmas ornaments are beautiful - will they all be the same colour or do you have other silks you can use? What a neat idea to get together with the others to do the work. As you probably know I never went back to that Quilt group after the new year and now see why it would be impossible for me to have continued- always something here at home to do. But I have other activities to keep me busy here - but, it is just the socialization that is the really important aspect of those outings, isn't it?
So I must get on with the birds and get them all cleaned up (and have another cookie haha!) Take care
I baked this morning and to show for it are corn meal muffins, and bran muffins to take to Mike's, and some refridgerator cookies for me! I found two frozen rolls in the freezer downstairs - surprise! Now I can treat myself.
Nothing but rain here but not half as bad as Ii thought it might be so it is manageable so far. We worked in the greenhouses yesterday afternoon ( yes, in the rain) and organized a little to make room for more. So now the parsley and the geraniums are all outside to stay. It is so nice to see the geraniums all in red flower but I hope that they will be ok - I think it is too early but Harry needed the room. I turned the outside water on yesterday as well - always a day to write down the date as I hate turning it on too early - this is the earliest so far. We were using the plastic pop bottles filling in the house and carrying out but they are all gone now and replaced by the hose.
Today I clean the bird cages and being a holiday and lower hydro rates, I think I will get started with the wash as well. Why is it always work?
Pati your Christmas ornaments are beautiful - will they all be the same colour or do you have other silks you can use? What a neat idea to get together with the others to do the work. As you probably know I never went back to that Quilt group after the new year and now see why it would be impossible for me to have continued- always something here at home to do. But I have other activities to keep me busy here - but, it is just the socialization that is the really important aspect of those outings, isn't it?
So I must get on with the birds and get them all cleaned up (and have another cookie haha!) Take care
Thursday, April 18, 2019
All is not well
For some reason my back pain has returned. Got bad Tuesday evening. I barely slept that night, but had a doctor's appointment at 6:00 the next morning, so went there instead of anything like urgent care. He made some changes in my meds. Then we went to Smitty's for breakfast. Both of us found the portion sizes too much for us, but had a good breakfast. Then it was off to Walmart with new prescriptions, and while we waited for the pills, I had my hair cut. I had been planning that for awhile, and found I could endure it without too much difficulty. Then I went home, took my daily pills with the changes made, and slept for 3 hours, with a little from a T3. For the rest of the day I was pretty well a "basket case". I sat and watched tv. I had no appetite, and found that trying to eat only made me nauseous. Bed time involved another T3, and a bit of otc sleep aid. I slept for almost 11 hours. Today isn't much better. I've been sitting in the kitchen on my Captain's chair, and playing with the computer. That seems to be the place I'm most comfortable. David has cleaned the kitchen, put all of the dishes and extra lights from my lady's visit. Now he's emptying the dishwasher.
Then the final straw (teehee) I tried to make myself some lunch. That involved peanut butter. David had to help me open it and the--it was crunchy!! I don't eat crunchy!! Try the other new jar! It was crunchy too!! It looks like I have two jars of crunchy peanut butter to use. How could this have happened? Well, since I'm the one who buys the peanut butter, I guess I have to live with it.
Then the final straw (teehee) I tried to make myself some lunch. That involved peanut butter. David had to help me open it and the--it was crunchy!! I don't eat crunchy!! Try the other new jar! It was crunchy too!! It looks like I have two jars of crunchy peanut butter to use. How could this have happened? Well, since I'm the one who buys the peanut butter, I guess I have to live with it.
Weather
It was supposed to be cloudy and rainy today, but right now it is sunny and 14. There are clouds in the sky though, so maybe later. Tomorrow is supposed to be beautiful!!! Sunny and 20. We'll see. Our Easter plans have changed. Sandi's uncle passed away, so we decided not to go. It would not be a happy visit and they will have other things on their mind to work out. He was only a few years older than Sandi. Closer in age to her than to her mom. Kris has holidays in a couple of weeks so maybe we can go then. Rrain is at a seminar at a Monastery in East St. Paul yesterday and today. She seems to be enjoying it. I am still sorting through my books. Many more to make a decision on. And that is just the bookcase in my office! Jim is outside with the lawn de-thatcher. Very happy to be doing something that doesn't use all his energy. I am going to pop into town to pick up a couple of things and then maybe sit outside and read for a while. Very ambitious of me.
Rain Rain go away!
Pending torrential rain storm and thunderstorm through today, Thursday and into Friday....... Dread! Nothing I can do to prepare expect to prepare to react to the unexpected and deal with it.... Dread!
Yesterday, I sent you both two pictures from my Luncheon with Sue and when I went onto the blog to write about it, I was greeted with a message that I could not log on because I had to go to Google Chrome and delete 'cookies" and I was given directions as to how. Of course anything like this upsets me so I logged off. This morning here is the blog ready for me and without my having done anything? ? I guess the old saying of " sleep on it" held true for me this time haha!
We are going to Mike's for Easter and yesterday we shopped for the meal and over next few days we shall prepare. I plan to bake some muffins for the coffee break we always have once we arrive - I always look forward to this particular time - to sit and talk and enjoy! I also got a telephone call from the Accountant that I may be able to pick up Mike's tax forms today - good timing so that I can take them to him Sunday when we go.
I looked up the Oakwood Bistro and Cafe on the internet - more info that one could fathom! It is worth a look from both of you - not only to bring back memories of our old neighbourhood but also to have a real good look at where Pati is going for her breakfast meeting next week - lots of pictures and menus. I quite enjoyed the browsing. Now Pati, you must tell us all about it.
So I must hustle now and back to reality - a sink full of dishes to greet me - I always say I never leave the sink full at night but last night I was just too bushed to do anything except put the birds to bed, take Bailey out for his last pee, cover the greenhouses and turn the heaters on for the night, and hit the bed myself. I need to find more energy to get me through these days!! Take care
Yesterday, I sent you both two pictures from my Luncheon with Sue and when I went onto the blog to write about it, I was greeted with a message that I could not log on because I had to go to Google Chrome and delete 'cookies" and I was given directions as to how. Of course anything like this upsets me so I logged off. This morning here is the blog ready for me and without my having done anything? ? I guess the old saying of " sleep on it" held true for me this time haha!
We are going to Mike's for Easter and yesterday we shopped for the meal and over next few days we shall prepare. I plan to bake some muffins for the coffee break we always have once we arrive - I always look forward to this particular time - to sit and talk and enjoy! I also got a telephone call from the Accountant that I may be able to pick up Mike's tax forms today - good timing so that I can take them to him Sunday when we go.
I looked up the Oakwood Bistro and Cafe on the internet - more info that one could fathom! It is worth a look from both of you - not only to bring back memories of our old neighbourhood but also to have a real good look at where Pati is going for her breakfast meeting next week - lots of pictures and menus. I quite enjoyed the browsing. Now Pati, you must tell us all about it.
So I must hustle now and back to reality - a sink full of dishes to greet me - I always say I never leave the sink full at night but last night I was just too bushed to do anything except put the birds to bed, take Bailey out for his last pee, cover the greenhouses and turn the heaters on for the night, and hit the bed myself. I need to find more energy to get me through these days!! Take care
Tuesday, April 16, 2019
ENOUGH!!
Enough snow! Enough cold! And especially, enough wind! It's mid-April, for Pete's sake!
Busy week in this house. Yesterday there was a morning meeting out in Selkirk. To my relief, on Sunday, the Selkirk bridge was re-opened, after it's yearly close down due to flooding. The road was good but there was still water on each side as one approached the bridge. Once I got home, there were errands to run in preparation for my ladies tea this afternoon. In the past, they have enjoyed some cookies that I get at a grocery store in a local mall, so off we go to pick up some cookies, and drop David's boots off for new heels, in the same mall. Grocery store is gone ( it was still there a month ago), and the shoemaker was closed on Mondays. We checked out a bakery in the same mall, where they wanted $2.00/each for Oatmeal cookies. Nope! Not going to pay that.
So off to another grocery store, not far from home, where I found 12 large cookies, a variety of types, for $8.00.
I didn't sleep well Sunday night, and by the time we got home, I was ready for a nap. That didn't help much, so the rest of the evening was spent, in my housecoat, vegging out, and one at a time, tackling the simpler chores on my "to do" list for today. Then, this morning, two of the ladies cancelled out on me, one of them using the excuse that she had to finish her taxes--the ones that aren't due for 2 weeks. O-o-k-a-y?!
Today David's income tax refund came. We have plans for the money, so he'll head out while the ladies are here to do the banking, and then finally take his boots in to the, now open, shoemaker. Tomorrow we have a 6:00 am doctor's appointment, I have a coffee date with my friend Gail, in the afternoon, and there is a LQG meeting in the evening, that I must attend.
Thursday, I'm volunteering, for the day, in Selkirk. I think that I'll be so tired by the end of that marathon, that a four day weekend will be just fine.
Next Friday, the 26th, I have been invited to a breakfast meeting at the Oakwood Cafe. I have heard good things about that place, and believe it has been around for quite a few years, but certainly after our time in the neighbourhood. I believe it's in a small mall on the northeast corner of Oakwood and Osborne. I'm quite looking forward to it, as well as a short sight seeing trip through the old neighbourhood-maybe?
Monday, April 15, 2019
Seems to be something wrong here...
Started snowing at supper last night and it has not stopped all night and this morning I had to take the dog out in drifts and blowing snow. I wonder if it will ever end? Yesterday Harry wanted to take plants out of the greenhouse and fortunately I reminded him of the pending snow storm, so they are all inside warm for now. But we cannot move in the little greenhouse because there are so many and especially hanging baskets that makes any movement to water requiring a crouching stance. This is very unusual for this time of year. Oh well. Got to live with it I guess.
Have a good week folks and it is Easter weekend coming - any plans? Take care
Have a good week folks and it is Easter weekend coming - any plans? Take care
Sunday, April 14, 2019
Your new purse!
I wanted to mention your new bag Pati and how stunning it is. I think it was a very nice choice and you will be pleased to use it even if you think it was not as big as you thought for all your items.
I still have my old black bag and it is in bad shape. I think I'll browse at the Thrift Shop while in Huntsville and see if I can catch myself a similar one. Here's hoping Thanks for the picture.
I still have my old black bag and it is in bad shape. I think I'll browse at the Thrift Shop while in Huntsville and see if I can catch myself a similar one. Here's hoping Thanks for the picture.
The day has passed into memory....
...so on with the next year. I love thinking that this one day a year is all mine - my birthday - and so soon it slips away. But it was pleasant with many good wishes, and a supper out at the local Schnitzel House.
Now to the excursion onto Campus. It was a real experience for me and you are right Pati about it being an entity of it's own, at least in my feeling and observing the "vibes" of the place. I not only had a coffee at Starbucks but also sat in one of the easy chairs at a table and enjoyed said coffee while people watching and reading, and at one time being engaged in conversation with some others who came in to sit close by. But I also had a coffee from Tin Hortons and did some more sitting near there at tables. They seem to have lots of little tables and chairs along the corridors and all with plug ins available. The architecture of each building was different - shapes, sizes, outside veneers, which made for a lot of eyes in the sky while I walked or drove as the case may be. The Library was three floors of copious space and row upon row of shelves filled with books. And again tables for students to sit and read or work. I was amazed to walk about and see it all. of course one of the first places I scouted out was a washroom and I did use it to my advantage while waiting for Mike's phone call to pick him up. His exam venue (In the sports plex and gym) was indeed at the extreme end of the campus from where I was parked and where most of the Class Buildings and the Library were located, and where I mostly hung out. It was indeed a once in a lifetime experience - but I was thinking that come Graduation times we are likely to have to go back there (or another time if Mike asks me again) so I was glad to have seen it and will not be intimidated a next time.
So back to reality. This Wednesday I have my Luncheon with friend Sue in Huntsville and it appears that Harry will drive me and then we'll use the rest of this day to do our usual shopping.
Also while I was away Harry was stopped by a neighbour down the street - he is elderly and physically challenged and deaf so also his speak is not good and hard to understand him - but he asked Harry to drive him to Huntsville Monday to see the Hearing Specialists. Or so Harry thought. I do not know where or when or how as Harry seems vague on details so I wonder what we might get ourselves into. Of course I will have to be the one to follow up- c'est la vie.
Well time for my breakfast and then you know it ..on with the day haha! Take care.
Now to the excursion onto Campus. It was a real experience for me and you are right Pati about it being an entity of it's own, at least in my feeling and observing the "vibes" of the place. I not only had a coffee at Starbucks but also sat in one of the easy chairs at a table and enjoyed said coffee while people watching and reading, and at one time being engaged in conversation with some others who came in to sit close by. But I also had a coffee from Tin Hortons and did some more sitting near there at tables. They seem to have lots of little tables and chairs along the corridors and all with plug ins available. The architecture of each building was different - shapes, sizes, outside veneers, which made for a lot of eyes in the sky while I walked or drove as the case may be. The Library was three floors of copious space and row upon row of shelves filled with books. And again tables for students to sit and read or work. I was amazed to walk about and see it all. of course one of the first places I scouted out was a washroom and I did use it to my advantage while waiting for Mike's phone call to pick him up. His exam venue (In the sports plex and gym) was indeed at the extreme end of the campus from where I was parked and where most of the Class Buildings and the Library were located, and where I mostly hung out. It was indeed a once in a lifetime experience - but I was thinking that come Graduation times we are likely to have to go back there (or another time if Mike asks me again) so I was glad to have seen it and will not be intimidated a next time.
So back to reality. This Wednesday I have my Luncheon with friend Sue in Huntsville and it appears that Harry will drive me and then we'll use the rest of this day to do our usual shopping.
Also while I was away Harry was stopped by a neighbour down the street - he is elderly and physically challenged and deaf so also his speak is not good and hard to understand him - but he asked Harry to drive him to Huntsville Monday to see the Hearing Specialists. Or so Harry thought. I do not know where or when or how as Harry seems vague on details so I wonder what we might get ourselves into. Of course I will have to be the one to follow up- c'est la vie.
Well time for my breakfast and then you know it ..on with the day haha! Take care.
Saturday, April 13, 2019
A birthday plan
Sounds like you have lots of activities planned for your birthday. ??Cleaning bird cages?? But isn't that so much of our reality as women? We do what needs to be done. Just the same, I hope you find a few minutes to yourself, to quietly celebrate. But maybe you did that while you were with Mike? Did you get into Starbucks and find out what sort of ready brewed coffee they had? A campus is really a separate place with an atmosphere all its own. A lot has to do with simply the physical surroundings. The people are the same ones you see anywhere, but they appear to change given, what I see, as an environment that demands a different time set.
My weekend will involve a wholesale house cleaning as I have some ladies coming for tea on Tuesday afternoon. That sort of frenzy doesn't change with retirement, Cathy. I still channel our Mother and the frenzy she used to get into when the "Spinsters" were coming. But this has also meant that not much cleaning took place around here over the past few days, in anticipation of the "big event".
Yesterday, I bought a new purse. This has been coming for awhile, and I "bit the bullet" and did it. I had thought that it would be so much larger than the last one, and hold my stuff quite nicely, but here it still looks a little stuffed. I see it as a "summer" purse, and quite unlike any other I've had.
My weekend will involve a wholesale house cleaning as I have some ladies coming for tea on Tuesday afternoon. That sort of frenzy doesn't change with retirement, Cathy. I still channel our Mother and the frenzy she used to get into when the "Spinsters" were coming. But this has also meant that not much cleaning took place around here over the past few days, in anticipation of the "big event".
Yesterday, I bought a new purse. This has been coming for awhile, and I "bit the bullet" and did it. I had thought that it would be so much larger than the last one, and hold my stuff quite nicely, but here it still looks a little stuffed. I see it as a "summer" purse, and quite unlike any other I've had.
...and back again!
Here I am back home. And apparently another year older - what happened?
The time spent at Mike's was well worth it as he appreciated my help so much. It is nice to be told what a positive difference you made in someone's life for such a small effort of just being there.
I shall write more later about my experience of wondering around Laurentian University Campus two days in a row - an entire different world from what I am used to - great fun! What a massive, massive expanse of area and huge buildings and activity in a completely isolated community atmosphere!
In meantime, I have to check my Lottery numbers now, from Wed to last night, and hope I shall be surprised with a big win. And get some breakfast, and then on with the day. I have to clean the birdie cages - they are quite a mess after not being tended for a few days.
All for now....take care
The time spent at Mike's was well worth it as he appreciated my help so much. It is nice to be told what a positive difference you made in someone's life for such a small effort of just being there.
I shall write more later about my experience of wondering around Laurentian University Campus two days in a row - an entire different world from what I am used to - great fun! What a massive, massive expanse of area and huge buildings and activity in a completely isolated community atmosphere!
In meantime, I have to check my Lottery numbers now, from Wed to last night, and hope I shall be surprised with a big win. And get some breakfast, and then on with the day. I have to clean the birdie cages - they are quite a mess after not being tended for a few days.
All for now....take care
Thursday, April 11, 2019
Computers and other aggravations
My computer is pissing me off again. Microsoft issues. So I will ignore them. We got eavestrough put on the front of the garage yesterday. $370 with no receipt. More if we asked for a receipt. Jim might have been able to buy all the necessary pieces and done it himself, but it would have taken weeks to finish. These guys had it all up in an hour. I am looking forward to not have water running onto my head and huge lumps of ice in the winter. We put some up years ago, but it was used then, and developed a lot of leaks. Finally we took it down and lived with ice lumps for the last few years. Yesterday I got up and did nothing all morning. Weird feeling. Then I culled cookbooks. I sure have a lot, but I enjoy reading them and imagining making something new. Then I make what I know. Tonight is some of the huge batch of chicken vegetable soup I made a couple of weeks ago. It is a sunny, but very cold and windy today so soup will be nice and warm. We picked up a used lawn sweeper yesterday, and Jim wants to get out and use it, but we have way too much snow left to try and sweep the lawn. It will be great for picking up all the pine needles that blew off over the winter. You can see them sitting on the snow. He also got some replacement tines for the lawn de-thatcher, but I think the lawn sweeper has him more excited. I cleaned my stove and oven this morning. Enough work for the day 😇. I will have to sort pictures tomorrow. Jim did a whole box the other day and put pictures aside to go to other family members. Now it is my turn to sort. I still have to find an Easter present for Chloe. I saw a badminton set at Giant Tiger that was all racket with only a short handle. Hard to miss the birdie that way, so I think I will get it. I always gave my kids one chocolate thing and a toy or something else useful. I put the lighter blanket on the bed today and washed the big, heavy one. I kept an extra quilt out for Jim's side of the bed cause I know he will get cold tonight, just because. And now I will find a book and curl up. The one I am reading right now is a very old novel by Helen MacInnes. It is interesting only in that it is from 1950 and shows the fear of communism that existed at that time and describes how people were seduced into fanatical belief. 70 years later and we are still having people seduced into fanatical belief.... just a different kind.
Wednesday, April 10, 2019
Chagrined
I figured out where some of my extra energy came from yesterday. Two XL dark roast from Tim's, back to-back, will tend to do that to a person.
Yes, your photo...
Yes, Pati I see a friendly, open, happy person in that photo. Now I wish I still get that magazine but I am sure there is somehow I will see the article (without joining up again?) Did she say when it would be published?
I believe you can reach that goal of increased energy and taking on a mentor role because I see that in you regardless. So how do you /we, all capture that little bit extra that will be reflected in a more active/interactive role in our lives? I have often thought about the very issues you just articulated in your posting - and I think we all have expressed those thoughts to each other at one time or another.
And it has been already mentioned in our many conversations - take advantage of opportunities (or at least consider without dismissing them immediately) knocking at the door? I will be anxious to see what happens now as we all have this foremost in our minds, and perhaps we can all help each other reach our potential in some way or other? - I am certainly here to try and help!
This is my last opportunity to blog and access the blog before I go to Mikes - will be late Friday or early Saturday before I can log on again. So I will be happy to see your messages when I return. I am all but ready and will leave this afternoon. I have the meals planned and most of them prepared to take.
Had a good day shopping yesterday - bought three more pair of casual slacks at 50% off at the Thrift shop for a total of $9.00. And picked up our Income taxes at the Accountant and I have to pay but not as much as I thought, so that was a nice surprise.
So long for now then, and take care.
I believe you can reach that goal of increased energy and taking on a mentor role because I see that in you regardless. So how do you /we, all capture that little bit extra that will be reflected in a more active/interactive role in our lives? I have often thought about the very issues you just articulated in your posting - and I think we all have expressed those thoughts to each other at one time or another.
And it has been already mentioned in our many conversations - take advantage of opportunities (or at least consider without dismissing them immediately) knocking at the door? I will be anxious to see what happens now as we all have this foremost in our minds, and perhaps we can all help each other reach our potential in some way or other? - I am certainly here to try and help!
This is my last opportunity to blog and access the blog before I go to Mikes - will be late Friday or early Saturday before I can log on again. So I will be happy to see your messages when I return. I am all but ready and will leave this afternoon. I have the meals planned and most of them prepared to take.
Had a good day shopping yesterday - bought three more pair of casual slacks at 50% off at the Thrift shop for a total of $9.00. And picked up our Income taxes at the Accountant and I have to pay but not as much as I thought, so that was a nice surprise.
So long for now then, and take care.
Tuesday, April 9, 2019
A bit of navel gazing
I'm reading a silly book--Danielle Steel, if you can believe. The main lady is a woman whose children have grown and left home, coming to visit only rarely. The plot is that even though she is older, and well settled into her life, she finds herself taking advantage of an opportunity, moving in a new direction, and totally changing her life into a much more interactive and exciting one. (Yeah, like that's going to happen to me!) But the concept lead me to thinking about a couple of friends, whom I perceive to be leading more exciting and socially interactive lives, even though they are as much as 12-14 years older than I am. I ask myself what is different with them, and I see them with more energy, and as more willing to become socially interactive. Then I start to look for excuses for why I can't be that way. I see myself with limited energy, and a willingness to settle for the status quo. But that leads me to think of Lorraine, with her very, very limited energy, being oxygen dependent, more or less confined to her house, but still serving as an influence to so many younger women. There are women still who come up to me and tell me how influential she was in their development as fibre workers and fibre artists. So my "excuses" just don't hold water. I need to look further inside me and find the energy to get out there and be willing to serve as a mentor. (I define "mentor" as someone who helps someone else achieve their potential.)
A part of this was an active morning, that left me feeling energized, to the point that I achieved as much in the studio today as I might, during the last year or so, achieve in a week. I need to tap into that hidden energy. I know that right now, doing so will leave me exhausted, but maybe I can work toward building up my energy reserve, in the same way as one might increase muscle strength. I'm leading a pretty sedentary life. I see David going through the same sort of process. Currently, a busy morning leaves him, too, exhausted. We both need to become more active.
Our adventures this morning started with an early e-mail, from the project coordinator in Edmonton, asking me to supply a new photograph for the World Wide Whispers project, as there is to be a major article in the Canadian Quilter Magazine, about the project, and they want to feature every artist who took part. The photo is needed asap. Beth, you know how anxious I've been about this whole thing. You took a photo of me last time you were here. When that one didn't work out, David took one, but that one isn't the right resolution for use in a magazine. One more time I asked my friend Gail if she would help, and I guess I finally wore her down, because she said yes. This meant a hurried trip out to her home in the country, a photo session in the living room of a photographer who normally photographs only landscapes, and then a hideous ( to me) session with Photoshop, supervised by her cat. (For some reason called "Turd") But the lady in Edmonton is happy with the result, Gail appeared happy with what I paid her, and I have the photo saved in my computer, as well as on a USB stick for when the computer crashes. You can check out the photo on the other blog.
A part of this was an active morning, that left me feeling energized, to the point that I achieved as much in the studio today as I might, during the last year or so, achieve in a week. I need to tap into that hidden energy. I know that right now, doing so will leave me exhausted, but maybe I can work toward building up my energy reserve, in the same way as one might increase muscle strength. I'm leading a pretty sedentary life. I see David going through the same sort of process. Currently, a busy morning leaves him, too, exhausted. We both need to become more active.
Our adventures this morning started with an early e-mail, from the project coordinator in Edmonton, asking me to supply a new photograph for the World Wide Whispers project, as there is to be a major article in the Canadian Quilter Magazine, about the project, and they want to feature every artist who took part. The photo is needed asap. Beth, you know how anxious I've been about this whole thing. You took a photo of me last time you were here. When that one didn't work out, David took one, but that one isn't the right resolution for use in a magazine. One more time I asked my friend Gail if she would help, and I guess I finally wore her down, because she said yes. This meant a hurried trip out to her home in the country, a photo session in the living room of a photographer who normally photographs only landscapes, and then a hideous ( to me) session with Photoshop, supervised by her cat. (For some reason called "Turd") But the lady in Edmonton is happy with the result, Gail appeared happy with what I paid her, and I have the photo saved in my computer, as well as on a USB stick for when the computer crashes. You can check out the photo on the other blog.
Sunday, April 7, 2019
Little bites...
The conversations that we have had over the last few days on the blog and also over the phone have resonated for me and yesterday I decided for myself to start to take those "little bites" to try to do something here at my place to placate my feeling of despair with my surroundings. I vacuumed and scrubbed the kitchen floor, and landing and down the stairs to the basement.And I moved a few items that have been lying on the floor since being brought home some time ago. It not only cleansed the surroundings, but also cleansed my soul haha.... Go figure! Now if I can keep it up? But I thank you both for the opportunity to see things a bit different for myself as well. So thank you!
Milder weather promises a few showers in the forecast but things are gradually starting to melt. The neighbour Gerd across the street spoke with me on the street yesterday - we often cross paths walking our dogs. His sister is dying and he plans to fly to Germany after Easter but he wonders if I can help Ruth with her IV infusions twice a week while he is gone. She does them on her own now and no Nurses come to the house anymore but she still has Gerd help her as it makes it easier to manage the tubes etc. So of course I said I would help them out. I confirmed with him that I was NOT holding myself out as a RN ( I cannot now with no registration) but as he says, he is helping her and he is not a Nurse! So she self manages, and that I can assist with - and have a coffee with her besides!
Next Wednesday I will be going to Mike's for two days to help him out. He is writing Finals and the ones Thursday and Friday start at 9 am and he asked if I could drive him into campus and drop him off at the exam site - his assigned parking spot is right across on the other side of campus from this site, and takes him at least 30 minutes to walk there - so I shall drive him and drop him at the site and then park in his spot and wait - then pick him up 3 hours later and do it all again the next day. And I can take care of meals and hide in the house while he studies. The exam on Sat starts at 7 pm so I told him he would have to manage that on his own as I must come back home on Friday afternoon. Then his fourth Final isn't until April 24 after Easter so he will manage that on his own as well. A little break like this will do me some good as well. I have books lined up for reading, and also my hexi quilt to work on so I shall be just fine! Apparently, there is a Starbucks and a Tim Hortons close to his parking area in the Classroom / Library Buildings so I can also treat myself to a coffee while I wait to pick him up. I downloaded a campus map and have oriented myself to the area already - always prepared I am....haha!
Time to check my Lottery tickets and have some breakfast before this day starts in earnest Take care.
Milder weather promises a few showers in the forecast but things are gradually starting to melt. The neighbour Gerd across the street spoke with me on the street yesterday - we often cross paths walking our dogs. His sister is dying and he plans to fly to Germany after Easter but he wonders if I can help Ruth with her IV infusions twice a week while he is gone. She does them on her own now and no Nurses come to the house anymore but she still has Gerd help her as it makes it easier to manage the tubes etc. So of course I said I would help them out. I confirmed with him that I was NOT holding myself out as a RN ( I cannot now with no registration) but as he says, he is helping her and he is not a Nurse! So she self manages, and that I can assist with - and have a coffee with her besides!
Next Wednesday I will be going to Mike's for two days to help him out. He is writing Finals and the ones Thursday and Friday start at 9 am and he asked if I could drive him into campus and drop him off at the exam site - his assigned parking spot is right across on the other side of campus from this site, and takes him at least 30 minutes to walk there - so I shall drive him and drop him at the site and then park in his spot and wait - then pick him up 3 hours later and do it all again the next day. And I can take care of meals and hide in the house while he studies. The exam on Sat starts at 7 pm so I told him he would have to manage that on his own as I must come back home on Friday afternoon. Then his fourth Final isn't until April 24 after Easter so he will manage that on his own as well. A little break like this will do me some good as well. I have books lined up for reading, and also my hexi quilt to work on so I shall be just fine! Apparently, there is a Starbucks and a Tim Hortons close to his parking area in the Classroom / Library Buildings so I can also treat myself to a coffee while I wait to pick him up. I downloaded a campus map and have oriented myself to the area already - always prepared I am....haha!
Time to check my Lottery tickets and have some breakfast before this day starts in earnest Take care.
Friday, April 5, 2019
An option ?
Cathy, have you looked at options to Blue Cross, such as the surehealth.ca? They are trying to break into the market, so might be less expensive than blue Cross. Even if you only used them for a year, until Pharmacare kicks in, it might be worth looking at.
Thursday, April 4, 2019
Give it time
Cathy, the smoked fish cooked in milk was probably Tulibee. Dad would bring it home as a special treat once in awhile. I don't remember the milk, and cooked mine in water. How our memories are different! I won't try to feed you Tulibee if you ever come here for supper--I promise!
Cathy, give yourself time to make the adjustment to being retired. There is no way you can deal with everything at once. You need to discover your best method of dealing with your new life. But there is no rush to get there. It will happen over time.
When you're dealing with the house work you need a strategy. Remember that house work is like eating an elephant, you get there one bite at a time. One strategy might be to devote a certain amount of time to it, and discipline yourself. When the time is up--no more. Move onto something other than cleaning, or whatever. My strategy is to make lists. I don't make any effort to do everything on the list in one day or one week. But, I decide to deal with a certain number of tasks every day--maybe one or two, and use a casual priority system to choose those task. So you tackle your list one bite at a time. And put everything on the list from preparing supper to doing the dishes, to grocery shopping, remembering your daily limit. I wash dishes no more than once a day, and sometimes not that often. But--your daily limit must be flexible, so as to not overtax your strength.
You must also make a real effort to be kind to yourself. Remember that you are involved in a very stressful life style adjustment, and approaching it in a state of exhaustion, and also at a low physical ebb, given your physical issues over the past while. At the same time, remember that you need a social life. Get out with other people once in awhile.
Sleep whenever you can. Your body and soul need rest right now. Treat them both kindly. And remember that you have partner to share things with-they aren't all your responsibility, and neither is the problem of developing a strategy for dealing with them.
Cathy, give yourself time to make the adjustment to being retired. There is no way you can deal with everything at once. You need to discover your best method of dealing with your new life. But there is no rush to get there. It will happen over time.
When you're dealing with the house work you need a strategy. Remember that house work is like eating an elephant, you get there one bite at a time. One strategy might be to devote a certain amount of time to it, and discipline yourself. When the time is up--no more. Move onto something other than cleaning, or whatever. My strategy is to make lists. I don't make any effort to do everything on the list in one day or one week. But, I decide to deal with a certain number of tasks every day--maybe one or two, and use a casual priority system to choose those task. So you tackle your list one bite at a time. And put everything on the list from preparing supper to doing the dishes, to grocery shopping, remembering your daily limit. I wash dishes no more than once a day, and sometimes not that often. But--your daily limit must be flexible, so as to not overtax your strength.
You must also make a real effort to be kind to yourself. Remember that you are involved in a very stressful life style adjustment, and approaching it in a state of exhaustion, and also at a low physical ebb, given your physical issues over the past while. At the same time, remember that you need a social life. Get out with other people once in awhile.
Sleep whenever you can. Your body and soul need rest right now. Treat them both kindly. And remember that you have partner to share things with-they aren't all your responsibility, and neither is the problem of developing a strategy for dealing with them.
Tulibee again
|I have no memory of tulibee at all. Fish was fish. I don't think I knew there were different types except for salmon loaf. I especially detested smoked fish boiled in milk. Now I eat pickeral, lightly seasoned and fried in butter. I might try it in batter one day, but why ruin a good thing. I am still battling with Blue Cross. Today they told me that we spent $900 between January 1 and |March 20th and that is why my final claim was denied. I don't think it is worth battling any longer. I am tired of it all already and I haven't been retired a week yet. I am overwhelmed by all the work to do in the house so I sit and do nothing but stare at it. We went to Brandon yesterday and used my gift card from work. I had intended to buy a toaster oven, but I did get myself a cheap purse and a new razor. The rest seemed to go to dog and cat food, laundry and dishwashing supplies and a bathroom scale. And I still had to add more money. "sigh" .Short break as I remembered I wanted to make a Vet appointment to get Chace shaved. They have to sedate him because he gets too scared. First available date is May 17 which is not bad. Weather should be warmer by then. As for books, I haven't been reading anything new lately. I was cleaning my bookshelves and found forgotten books that have been my reading material. I don't even have a library book in the house. Now I suppose I will go and stare at the mess in the living room for a while
Tulibee
I enjoyed the Tulibee, after simmering it in a big frying pan with the lid on. I got enough off it to eat right away, but had trouble avoiding the bones. David pulled most of the rest of it off and did a much better job. I carefully divided the left overs into 3 oz bundles, and ended up with 4 of them, 3 of which I froze. So I'll have my fish salad for lunch today, or maybe supper, as I have a some chicken in the fridge that needs using more than the fish.
My friend, Gail, is meeting me for coffee this afternoon. If I find the time I want to experiment with a different way of painting cotton that I saw in a Design Matters tv video this week. The past few days I have been exploring a blog that is on UTube rather than google " The Last Homely House East of the Sea" ( You can get to it from Google, and then you get the most recent entry, and a bunch of older entries along the right hand side.) It is an older lady who lives on a remote, but active farm, in Britain. She spins and quilts and knits, as well as a lot of other things, and it is presented in a video format rather than graphic.
My friend, Gail, is meeting me for coffee this afternoon. If I find the time I want to experiment with a different way of painting cotton that I saw in a Design Matters tv video this week. The past few days I have been exploring a blog that is on UTube rather than google " The Last Homely House East of the Sea" ( You can get to it from Google, and then you get the most recent entry, and a bunch of older entries along the right hand side.) It is an older lady who lives on a remote, but active farm, in Britain. She spins and quilts and knits, as well as a lot of other things, and it is presented in a video format rather than graphic.
Tulibee....
Oh how nice.....Please share your tulibee experience with us Pati. I have not had tulibee since leaving home and your mention of it stirred some nice memories. It is NOT a meal that would be welcome in these parts (even if I could find it around here) So how did you cook it, and how did it taste. Cathy have you had tulibee lately?
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
Life goes on
I usually read my books in order by copyright date.
A few errands today. I make a list and David drops me off at the coffee store, does what he can and then picks me up, and we look after the rest. This suits us both so much more than him coming in with me, and being uncomfortable, while I drink my coffee. Today, we had to take the car back to have the wheel lugs checked, 100 km after having the summer tires put on. Never had to do that before. Then he made a quick trip to the Bulk Barn, and then Walmart. After that we had a shopping list of about 5 items at the grocery store, but left the list at home, and spent over $80. But a Tulibee for supper is a special treat to look forward to. I got a fairly large one in hopes of having some left over for tomorrow's lunch
After getting home it was a bit of a frenzy turning a large package of hamburger into meatballs in gravy, and patties for the freezer. Now we can both relax. I don't know what he has planned, but I'm heading for the studio. Quilting my Spring piece has stopped until the thread comes, but I have a couple of other ideas that I want to explore.
A few errands today. I make a list and David drops me off at the coffee store, does what he can and then picks me up, and we look after the rest. This suits us both so much more than him coming in with me, and being uncomfortable, while I drink my coffee. Today, we had to take the car back to have the wheel lugs checked, 100 km after having the summer tires put on. Never had to do that before. Then he made a quick trip to the Bulk Barn, and then Walmart. After that we had a shopping list of about 5 items at the grocery store, but left the list at home, and spent over $80. But a Tulibee for supper is a special treat to look forward to. I got a fairly large one in hopes of having some left over for tomorrow's lunch
After getting home it was a bit of a frenzy turning a large package of hamburger into meatballs in gravy, and patties for the freezer. Now we can both relax. I don't know what he has planned, but I'm heading for the studio. Quilting my Spring piece has stopped until the thread comes, but I have a couple of other ideas that I want to explore.
A quickie
Nice to hear from you Pati but sorry that you have been having trouble with your back. Take it easy. How are you getting along Cathy?
Surprise at the library this morning. I was able to take out two Nicci French books from your suggestion Pati. I had gone on line to see what order they came in but was not able to follow that by virtue of limited number of books available on the shelf. So I am hoping I would not miss anything by reading out of order. I also took out another Joanne Kilbourne novel. I wanted enough reading to keep me going for the two weeks until the due date.
So now I am off to work here - the greenhouses need watering. Last night I awoke at 1:30 am to seeing my second clock radio way up on the shelf flashing ( the one by the bed was OK because it has a battery backup) So I quickly jumped up to check the temp in the one greenhouse where we have a monitor and you guessed it- down to 45 degrees. So on with the coat and boots and out in the dark - I had to restart both heaters so opening them both to get into the greenhouse. PINTA. But all is well - it must have been a sudden power down enough to trigger the heaters turning off. But one has to be ever so vigilant. My how I hope it warms up soon.
Take care for now.
Surprise at the library this morning. I was able to take out two Nicci French books from your suggestion Pati. I had gone on line to see what order they came in but was not able to follow that by virtue of limited number of books available on the shelf. So I am hoping I would not miss anything by reading out of order. I also took out another Joanne Kilbourne novel. I wanted enough reading to keep me going for the two weeks until the due date.
So now I am off to work here - the greenhouses need watering. Last night I awoke at 1:30 am to seeing my second clock radio way up on the shelf flashing ( the one by the bed was OK because it has a battery backup) So I quickly jumped up to check the temp in the one greenhouse where we have a monitor and you guessed it- down to 45 degrees. So on with the coat and boots and out in the dark - I had to restart both heaters so opening them both to get into the greenhouse. PINTA. But all is well - it must have been a sudden power down enough to trigger the heaters turning off. But one has to be ever so vigilant. My how I hope it warms up soon.
Take care for now.
An unusual Day
Yesterday was a little unusual. We went to see the movie Captain Marvel. The show started at 5:20, so I cooked the pork tenderloin I had in Cathy's marinade for over 24 hours, and we ate it at shortly after 4:00. We had popcorn at the movie, and then a snack just before bed. Not a great day for dieting. The movie has been well received by the public, although a few of the critical reviews termed the plot as "uncomprehensible". I wore my hearing aid, and was able to detect a bit of a plot, so quite enjoyed myself.
My back has been a problem lately. I've been wearing my lumbar corset for the last 4-5 days ( And that's another story!*&%$#@) I've also been having difficulty rising to standing. I took my cane and used it, and we planned ahead to try to use the row of seats set aside for the handicapped. We've never used those rows before. There were only three seats, and one clearly marked as reserved for the companion of someone using a wheelchair. The seats were no better than any other in the theatre, but there was more leg room. That did the trick. I was much more comfortable and was able to get up out of the seat, with no more maneuvering than getting our of a low chair at home. I think David had more trouble getting up than I did. I wish I could say the same for the handicapped stall in the washroom. The grab bar was on the right, and of very little use to me. I will avoid that washroom in future.
The morning was spent starting the quilting on my "Spring" hanging with the tree. I'm now waiting for some thread I had ordered, before I can go any further. The Post Office says it will be delivered tomorrow. I've saved the overall pattern thinking that it might be the springboard to a "Seasons" series. I've also spent some time, lately, thinking about a design problem that has plagued me for over a year. I have the seed of an idea that I plan to work on a bit more. I would really like to solve this one, and that solution may involve that wonderful skein of hand spun yarn that I bought at the Fibre Festival last fall.
Of course, I could also do a bit of house work. Nah! Not going to happen.
My back has been a problem lately. I've been wearing my lumbar corset for the last 4-5 days ( And that's another story!*&%$#@) I've also been having difficulty rising to standing. I took my cane and used it, and we planned ahead to try to use the row of seats set aside for the handicapped. We've never used those rows before. There were only three seats, and one clearly marked as reserved for the companion of someone using a wheelchair. The seats were no better than any other in the theatre, but there was more leg room. That did the trick. I was much more comfortable and was able to get up out of the seat, with no more maneuvering than getting our of a low chair at home. I think David had more trouble getting up than I did. I wish I could say the same for the handicapped stall in the washroom. The grab bar was on the right, and of very little use to me. I will avoid that washroom in future.
The morning was spent starting the quilting on my "Spring" hanging with the tree. I'm now waiting for some thread I had ordered, before I can go any further. The Post Office says it will be delivered tomorrow. I've saved the overall pattern thinking that it might be the springboard to a "Seasons" series. I've also spent some time, lately, thinking about a design problem that has plagued me for over a year. I have the seed of an idea that I plan to work on a bit more. I would really like to solve this one, and that solution may involve that wonderful skein of hand spun yarn that I bought at the Fibre Festival last fall.
Of course, I could also do a bit of house work. Nah! Not going to happen.
Tuesday, April 2, 2019
Shopping today...in the snow!
Does not seem to want to stop snowing in these parts so I guess we just have to go with it. Although with temps promising to be above zero for next few days I am sure it will improve - instead of snow maybe it will be rain haha!
Took the Tax papers into the Accountant this afternoon on way back from Huntsville. Now I hope for the best - we will be getting a credit of something a little over $100.00 I think for Climate Somethings? I do not know exactly what it is but I'll take it. If we owe, then the credit will be subtracted from whats owing, and if we get back, then the credit will be added. Whooppee!
Well, I changed my mind today while in The Thrift Shop. I spotted a really nice skirt and matching button down the front overblouse outfit in reds and browns - and then a tee shirt for under it in red sequins. I wish I could send a picture. This is what I would like to wear to this wedding in September rather than the other outfit I bought. I kept looking at it hanging up here and wasn't too thrilled. So I have a choice now and will have to wait until the exact date to know for sure what I'll wear. But I am really liking the looks of this red outfit! And speaking of the wedding, I have now established what I shall be sending for the bride for the Bridal Shower. And I bought tissue and wrapping paper and ribbon and a card today at Dollarama so all I have to do now is wrap it up and get it down to Huntsville to Harry's sister. Thank you for the suggestions and support - the two new Cookbooks I had on hand here will be the basis of the gift and I found a really nice basket downstairs that will work well for holding, and also it will serve as a useful item for her to use after....Voila!
Well we heard on the news today that our MP for Muskoka Parry Sound will NOT be running in the next federal election in October. Tony Clement was the MP we have had for decades and was also the poor fellow who got caught sharing explicit photos of himself on line and then kicked out of the Conservative party. I think it was probably a good decision on his part not to run. I wish him well.
Time to go for now....Hope all is well with you folks. Take care
Took the Tax papers into the Accountant this afternoon on way back from Huntsville. Now I hope for the best - we will be getting a credit of something a little over $100.00 I think for Climate Somethings? I do not know exactly what it is but I'll take it. If we owe, then the credit will be subtracted from whats owing, and if we get back, then the credit will be added. Whooppee!
Well, I changed my mind today while in The Thrift Shop. I spotted a really nice skirt and matching button down the front overblouse outfit in reds and browns - and then a tee shirt for under it in red sequins. I wish I could send a picture. This is what I would like to wear to this wedding in September rather than the other outfit I bought. I kept looking at it hanging up here and wasn't too thrilled. So I have a choice now and will have to wait until the exact date to know for sure what I'll wear. But I am really liking the looks of this red outfit! And speaking of the wedding, I have now established what I shall be sending for the bride for the Bridal Shower. And I bought tissue and wrapping paper and ribbon and a card today at Dollarama so all I have to do now is wrap it up and get it down to Huntsville to Harry's sister. Thank you for the suggestions and support - the two new Cookbooks I had on hand here will be the basis of the gift and I found a really nice basket downstairs that will work well for holding, and also it will serve as a useful item for her to use after....Voila!
Well we heard on the news today that our MP for Muskoka Parry Sound will NOT be running in the next federal election in October. Tony Clement was the MP we have had for decades and was also the poor fellow who got caught sharing explicit photos of himself on line and then kicked out of the Conservative party. I think it was probably a good decision on his part not to run. I wish him well.
Time to go for now....Hope all is well with you folks. Take care
Monday, April 1, 2019
A new week, and a new month....
....so here's to a new / renewed optimism as we move into April and what should be the end of winter and watching it with glee heading out the door. We can always hope haha!
I love to hear about new books so thanks for this latest idea. I wonder if my Library would have any of this author's offerings?
I get my hair cut on Thursday - always a great day for me. Actually I was planning for it for next week but my hairdresser is off on her Caribbean holiday, so I bumped it up a week so not to miss out.
That flurry of snow and blowing over the weekend knocked me for a blow - not wanting or expecting it but what can we say over this winter that has been so unpredictable? I thought it was my comment about the "dirty snow banks" that prompted Mother nature to freshen the looks around us but maybe not. I will have to shut my mouth in future. Speaking of which I read the horoscope for Aries on the WFP this morning and here is a quote for all of us to ponder "A soft answer turneth away wrath but grievous words stir up anger" I think I shall try it - my April resolution perhaps?
Take care.
I love to hear about new books so thanks for this latest idea. I wonder if my Library would have any of this author's offerings?
I get my hair cut on Thursday - always a great day for me. Actually I was planning for it for next week but my hairdresser is off on her Caribbean holiday, so I bumped it up a week so not to miss out.
That flurry of snow and blowing over the weekend knocked me for a blow - not wanting or expecting it but what can we say over this winter that has been so unpredictable? I thought it was my comment about the "dirty snow banks" that prompted Mother nature to freshen the looks around us but maybe not. I will have to shut my mouth in future. Speaking of which I read the horoscope for Aries on the WFP this morning and here is a quote for all of us to ponder "A soft answer turneth away wrath but grievous words stir up anger" I think I shall try it - my April resolution perhaps?
Take care.
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